I walk near the New Garland temple with Hirge, but she won't trigger the conversation starting the quest 3 vs 11. It's not on my journal. I go into the temple and speak with the governor, sleep, go somewhere else, send Hirge away and get her back again, still can't start the quest. I saw the prompt before, decided I didn't want to start the quest yet, so I didn't save it before (just restarted from prior load). Now I can't get the quest to start.